If you focus on success, you’ll have stress. If you pursue excellence, you will succeed.


Hi! We are Gary and Julie. Years ago we found ourselves continuously pursuing excellence in our professional careers, but not in our marriage…As competitive and successful as we were outside of our home, we should have naturally had a strong marriage right? WRONG!

I (Julie) was exhausted and said “See ya, I’m out”. Divorce seemed like the only and BEST option. But then we said let’s try one last time… from that last try we realized we had strayed far away from the foundation upon which we built our marriage when we were just 19 and 22. We realized we’d messed up some things and had to get over quite a few humps – mental, emotional, financial and even physical. Our plans became the basis that we created a marital strategy–just like you have to create a strategy to secure the “bag” you have to create a strategy to secure your relationship.

Since then we continue to refine our strategy and pursue excellence in all areas of our lives, not just our professional lives.

We decided the method we used to save our marriage is just too good NOT to share! We’ve partnered with licensed professionals to create a life changing product to build, maintain and restore the grounds on which you built your love!


Leading and Love is here to provide support mechanism for leaders who are married. We believe that marriage is critical foundation in preserving humanity and advancing society. Marriage itself brings its own set of challenges; couple that with leadership outside the home and the responsibilities become even more. Leading and Love provides valuable resources to help you grow your marriage and excel in outside leadership roles.



Now we understand that the concept of strategy might throw you off because we’ve been trained to think that when it comes to our relationships, it should all be romance, right? Naw! If you’ve been married for more than one month, you have already experienced that not everything will be romantic. That’s fine, but the love is still there and the desire for an excellent, satisfying life with the person you adore can be attainable.


We know there are many organizations that can offer you great guidance and advice. We also understand you’re action-takers, leaders who need concrete, proven research. Therefore, we’ve put together a team of psychologists, therapists, counsellors and relationship experts that stand behind us as we guide you and your spouse in continuing to pursue excellence in your marriage and family. ​

You’re a successful leader. Your marriage and family can be successful too.

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